Life's Lessons

My best friend taught me that it is important to live in the moment, while obviously maintaining moral standards and making goals.  Plans are never 100% reliable, therefore live in the moment, and soak up every little opportunity to experience joy that you have.  This life is filled with trials, but those trials are designed by god to mold us, and help us progress in this life.  There is an amazing quote that was given by the Prophet Gordon B. Hinckley, he said:  "Life is to be enjoyed, not endured."  I LOVE that quote! God wants each of us to recognize the blessings we have in life, take advantage of the opportunities that will contribute to our personal growth, and he wants us to be happy above all else.

In order to be happy we cannot let worries, hold us back.  We cannot allow our weaknesses to limit our ability to enjoy this life. In order to be happy give it our all! Live life to the fullest!  

Pay attention to your surroundings, the blessings you have, the many opportunities granted to you, and live your life without fear..

Summer

Summer officially started almost 3 weeks ago but it didn't even occur to me to to make a blog post about it.  Then I thought about it and realized how important it is to me, and here we are.  Summer can be interpreted many different ways by each individual.

 

1. For the kids in elementary school it means no more homework, no more worries, just playing with their buddies without a care in the world.

2. For the junior high to high school kids it could mean sports camps, jobs, young love, family trips, etc.

3. For the college kids (my age) it means a time of growth, an opportunity to give it your all in everything you do, a time to laugh, love, and enjoy the company of your loved ones. It means travel, adventures, risks, boating, swimming and fun.  

The only downside to summer is that September comes too fast (even though it's a great month, JDR) Before we know it we are back into the school/work grind, the sun starts to set earlier, and we realize that the summer dream has come to an end. Until next year. 

Fortunately for us we still have another 2 and a half months!  Carpe Diem!

8 Benefits to living a POSITIVE life!

When I was younger I heard the question: "Do you think the glass is half empty or half full?" I answered "Half full."  Being positive is a very important aspect of life, here are 8 benefits of living a POSITIVE life:

1.  POSITIVE people who regularly express POSITIVE emotions are more resilient when facing stress, challenges and adversity. (Several Studies)

2. POSITIVE people are able to maintain a broader perspective and see the big picture which helps them identify solutions where as negative people maintain a narrower perspective and tend to focus on problems. (Barbara Fredrickson)

3. POSITIVE people aren't negative!  That means they are enjoyable company.

4. POSITIVE emotions such as gratitude and appreciation help athletes perform at a higher level. (Heartmath.org)

5.  POSITIVE, optimistic sales people sell more than pessimistic sales people. (Martin Seligman)

6.  POSITIVE work environments outperform negative work environments. (Daniel Goleman)

7. POSITIVE People Live Longer – In a study of nuns, those that regularly expressed POSITIVE emotions lived on average 10 years longer. (The Nun Study)

8.  POSITIVITY is contagious!


Live a POSITIVE life!

3 places I would love to visit!

I decided that I would write about a few places I would like to visit during my life.  Hopefully they will interest each one of you, and inspire you to be creative with your "traveling desires" as well.

1. I need to go to New Zealand, I went when I was a senior in high school and absolutely loved the trip!  They have a very unique culture that is extremely oriented around recreation.  The food is delicious, and it is beautiful beyond belief! I would love to revisit to be able to surf, bungee jump, tour the caves, eat the food, and relax.  I will also need to bring along my best friend.

2. I would also love to travel to Europe! If I could choose the two countries to go to they would have to be Spain and Italy.  Spain would be important because of the deep spanish culture that originates from this country.  Italy, because of the amazing food, and the cool little towns.

3. Last but not least I would like to revisit Argentina, I was lucky enough to serve my mission there.  I would love to be able to visit some of the sights I wasn't able to go to as a missionary, and also be able to do a service project or some sort for the people down there.

There is a huge list of places I would love to visit, but these were three of them that I thought of in the moment!  

Here is a link to another traveler's blog that is a good example: http://www.nomadic-habit.com

2014 World Cup!!

There are few things that can end wars, calm conflicts, and bring together nations that hate each other.  The World Cup can accomplish such a feat!  It brings together the world's best soccer teams that will spend a month going head to head in the biggest soccer tournament the world has ever seen.  Soccer isn't nearly as popular as basketball, or football here in the United States.  But in other areas of the world, such as Europe, and South America, "futbol" is a religion.  This soccer craze hit me as well, during my service as an LDS missionary for 2 years in Argentina.

Argentina's very own Lionel Messi is one of the world's best soccer players!  The World Cup does not only give us a chance to forget the conflicts of the world, but also an opportunity to enjoy the sport of soccer at its finest! Tune in to: http://www.fifa.com/index.html to appreciate these epic soccer matches!

La comida mexicana

Anyone who knows me well enough know that one of my passions in life is Mexican food.  I die for this stuff!  In a regular week I usually eat a burrito, or a burrito salad at least five times a week.  So here are my top three favorite Mexican restaurants, so that you can go out and enjoy what I have been enjoying my whole life!  

My favorite without a doubt is Barbacoa: 

The burritos from Barbacoa are perfect, from the succulent chicken, flavor blasting black beans, refreshing tomato salsa, to the crunchy lettuce, and perfectly steamed rice.

Coming in second would have to be Cafe Rio!  Their salads are amazing!

And third goes to Chipotle!

If 1 o'clock comes rolling around and all you can think about is Mexican food, you're just like me! So here's a list for the next time you are out searching for your next delicious burrito! 

DONUTS!

America has had a long love affair with with something essential to our history as a nation. DONUTS!!!! Yes this sweet, soft pastry has become one of our most prized possessions. Look at them:

These tender treats were first made without the hole and were the size of a walnut, thus the name: "nut".  Here in the United States we are lucky enough to celebrate one day a year totally centered around donuts!  This special day falls on the first Friday of June every year.  But these delicious treat are too perfect to only have once a year...

So if you missed it this year, do yourself a favor and go out and buy a donut!  You won't regret it.

Acting without being asked

I remember when I was 12 years old one of my young men's leaders shared a quote with the young men in our ward.  I have remembered this quote ever since then, and it has always reminded me to act without being asked.  Do what others expect of you, without them requesting you to do so.

"This is a little story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody.

There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it.

Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it.

Somebody got angry about that because it was Everybody's job.

Everybody thought that Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn't do it.

It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done."

Lets do our part, and not rest on the fact that "somebody" will do it for us, because in many cases "nobody" will.  Whether our part be physical service, the opportunity to serve someone, or just everyday work, don't wait to be asked, just do it.

Californiacation!

A week ago I was lucky enough to go to Laguna beach California!  We road tripped for a total of 24 hours in five days.  From the start we had planned to stay in California for four days to make it back for work on Tuesday.  Long story short, it was a great trip from day one until the last day. Then we were hanging out on the beach the last day.

It was a perfect day to be in the ocean, we were taking advantage of the good weather by messing around in the waves, then my friend Taylor suggested that we skim-board for a little while.  I went and grabbed the skim board from our spot on the beach and skimmed once, then I handed the board to my friend Taylor.  He grabbed the board and started running to start his skim, but just as he laid the board down on the sand he caught his foot in the sand and tripped. I fell down laughing, but soon realized that he was bleeding all over his leg!  We rushed him to the E.R. and he had to get 15+ stitches in his foot. Looking on the bright side, our trip was extended another day!

   

Although there were a few setbacks to this trip, we made a lot of great memories!

Last week I got the chance to go to the wedding of one of my really good friends! My favorite part of the whole experience was seeing them enjoy eachother's company and not even noticing the hundreds of people surrounding them.

 It's really cool to think that we can with someone for eternity.  One of my favorite parts of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ is the knowledge that we can live with our loved ones for eternity.  There is something more after this life, and for me that wipes away so many fears that envelope the world today of this life being all we have.  All of that begins with the decision we make to marry someone and commit ourselves to them forever.  I love that god allows us to make these covenants with him and gives us the opportunity to enjoy blessings that can only be experienced through obedience.

The hardest job there is..

I have heard of a many different jobs that are demanding and time consuming but this job is by far the hardest job there is..

The definition of selfless service is motherhood.  They virtually sacrifice their own lives for the lives of their children, and the only payback they ask for is to see their children's happiness.  Like it said on the video, the hours for this job are very flexible, the job is "135 hours - unlimited hours a week, and there are no breaks available."  

 Let your mom know she is important, tell her you love her, write her a note, spend time with her, ask her what you can do to help out.  I promise you she's worth it.

 The gift of motherhood is a gift from God, and it is the highest, and holiest calling.  Most mothers face an overwhelming schedule and are pushed to the extremes.  Our mothers are willing to do just about anything to help us be happy. What are we willing to do for them?  I love my mother and I am grateful for all she does for me. 

"Either you let your life slip away by not doing the things you want to do, or you get up and do them."

This week was great! I had school, work, and many other activities that made the week fly by. In the years of our youth, life seems to go by slower, because we are fascinated by every new experience. Our daily ventures into the unknown keep us occupied and our days are filled with adventures.  Most people seem to lose this excitement and the drive to enjoy their experiences as they age.  It is a sad reality, but losing this adventurous attitude lets our life slip away before our eyes.  We need to love life and all of the experiences that come with it, whether they be fun, hard, new, or old!

This past week I was able to go up fishing with my 2 brothers, a friend, and our grandpa.  The fact that I have been fishing many times throughout my life did not take away from the fun I was willing to have.  It was a simple trip, we caught fish and we were laughing the whole time, enjoying ourselves and the time we all had together. 

Its as simple as this:

"Either you let your life slip away by not doing the things you want to do, or you get up and do them." 

-Roger Von Oech

Finishing up finals and going against the odds!

Finals at BYU are officially over for now!  That means I had about a week to go mess around with my buddies until summer classes started up.  That's right my summer was 5 days long this year!  But I was still extremely excited for the chance to go out and mess around on the dirt bikes for a day out in northern Utah.  The odds were not favoring us as we woke up at 6 in the morning to head out, it was pouring rain, my buddies bike's seat was broken, it was freezing, there was no room in the truck, when we started filling up the gas tanks the digital screen typed in 666 all on its own, and many more signs that we shouldn't carry on with the trip presented themselves.  But we decided to do it anyways!  Long story short, we had a blast out there, pushing it to the limits and having a great time, even though all of us came home injured from the days adventures it was still worth it in my opinion! "You've got to risk it for the biscuit!"  

Life summary

My name is Taylor Jeffrey Brasher I am a 21 year old who recently returned from serving an LDS mission in Argentina!

I am currently a student at BYU and enjoying the many adventures that life has to offer. I am the oldest of 4 kids, and I love my family!  I love to do anything recreational, including sports, hunting, boating, surfing, hiking, really anything that involves physical activity. 

 This is my first blog but I can't wait to share whats going on in my life and be able to inspire others to be adventurous and take advantage of every chance that we have each day to live life to the fullest.  I love life and the many opportunities we get to change, learn, and grow. "In all of living, have much fun and laughter. Life is to be enjoyed, not just endured." -Gordon B. Hinckley